Between the Lines: Unconscious Meaning In Everyday Conversation
New York, (orig. Plenum Press), 1999
http://www.perseusbooks.com
 

 
This new theory of how the unconscious mind works through everyday language makes Freudian slips of the tongue look like child's play

Details Magazine calls Haskell's method a Chat Decoder,

---Jonah Freedman, Editor (June, 1999, p. 34)      

Would you like to know what friends, family, and co-workers are really thinking or feeling about you during a conversation?

Filled with actual examples from everyday life, this intriguing book is the result of twenty-years of pioneering research leading to a highly original, practical and natural method for uncovering hidden thoughts and feelings in everyday conversations ---as well as in business groups and therapy sessions.

Reveals the most novel mental operations of the human mind yet recognized.

 

Book: Deep Listening


Sequel:
   Deep Listening


•   After receiving a hurtful comment, why does the person "just happen" to start talking about "pierced ears?"

•   Why, during a male-dominated discussion does an old movie on late night TV, entitled, A Woman Under the Influence "just happen" to creep into the conversation?

•   Why did CNN's correspondent, Wolf Blitzer, in reporting the news on President Clinton and Monica Lewinsky's semen stained dress, "just happen" to end by saying the President should have "come clean?"

•   When addressing a store clerk, what does it mean when a customer "just happens" to use phrase "be straight with me," when the store clerk is gay?

•   Though even the NAACP denies it, when a White aide, in a highly publicized budget meeting with the Black mayor of Washington, D.C., uses the word niggardly (literally meaning miserly) is there in fact racial meaning involved?

•   During a coffee break from a badly run business meeting why does the small talk "just happen" to be about an incompetent Director of a Mental Health Department.

 
These are not simply examples of meaningless small talk, or slips of the tongue.  They are meaningful slips of the mind.


Endorsements
 

 

A ground-breaking, yet highly readable account, of hidden and unconscious meaning in conversations.  The many examples provide fascinating and entertaining reading.  Not only is it useful in everyday life, but for therapists it is a must-read.  Listening to conversations will never be the same again.
---Susan Edward, Psychologist, Author of Dangerous Clients
 

Haskell 's book is to be compared to Arthur Koestler's The Act of Creation.  Only infrequently since Koestler has anyone been able to write a book that presents the complexity of psychological science in a readable way.
---Howard Pollio, Psychologist., Author of Phenomenology of Everyday Life
 

Between the Lines is a wondrous journey!
---Richard B. Gregg, Communications, Author of Symbolic Inducement and Knowing
 

 


Two Media Examples
 

# 1.    CNN Reporting on the Clinton-Lewinski Affair
Watching a program called "Burden of Proof," on CNN, Roger Cossack, one of the hosts of the program, made a slip of the tongue or speech error.  In talking about President Clinton testifying before a grand jury, he meant to say that it was "unprecedented," but he slipped and clearly began to say, "unPresidented."  Linguists would say that this is caused by confusing the similar sound and spelling of the two words which interfere with each other.  Look closely at the spelling of "unprecedented," and "unPresidented."  This not a meaningless speech error caused by the similar sound of the two words.

Linguists would explanation of this slip as simply caused by the similar sound and spelling of the two words being confused and interfering with each other, indicating no hidden meaning.  Looking closely at the spelling of "unprecedented," and "unPresidented," they both begin with "unpre......", which is followed by either the consonant "s" or "c" which can be similarly pronounced.  These letters are then followed by the two vowels, "i" and "e" which also can be pronounced similarly.  Finally they end identically with ".......dented." But this not a meaningless speech error caused by the similar sound of the two words.  The slip has meaning.  An analysis of the linguistic mechanisms involved may explain the how, but it doesn't explain the why of the slip.  To understand the why we have to understand the context of the slip.
The context of the CNN program, as well as previous programs, was about the possible impeachment of Clinton because of charges of purgery.  The slip "unPresidented" in this case refers to being removed from his office or impeached, that is, un-Presidented, as in being "unseated," or coming "unhinged."  The slip may reflect Cossack's feeling that Clinton being called before a Grand Jury is not only unprecedented as in the adjectival form but "un precedential."  In other words not only is a President being called before the Grand Jury, unprecedential but so are the sexual charges being investigated unprecedential. Clinton's behaviors in the workplace, if true, are thus both unprecedential and un-presidential.
Without access to the personal views of Roger Cossack, however, there is no way of responsibly assessing the deeper subliteral motivations of this slip, i.e., whether Mr. Cossack presumably believes that Clinton should be impeached as the result of the scandal, or whether the slip means that he thinks Clinton will or might be impeached.  To play around with sounds and words is not just to "play with words;" it's to explore the depths of language in all of its linguistic complexity.  Indeed, it's to create language and meaning.

# 2.    CNN Reporting on the Clinton-Lewinski Affair

Wolf Blitzer reported that President Clinton's team of lawyers was about to launch an attack on Ken Starr's grand jury report that Clinton's lied about his affair with a young White House intern.  Wolf meant to say that Clinton's team was about to go on the offensive against the material in the report, but he slipped and said they were about to engage in offenses.  Is this just a simple slip of the tongue, or is it a slip of the mind?  I suggest it's the latter.  Given the continuous reportage of Clinton's alleged sexual behavior that many people find offensive, Wolf s slip was perhaps clear about what he was really thinking about Clinton's behavior.  They were offenses that were offensive.  Wolf, of course, immediately caught what he had really said.

 


Between the Lines: Unconscious Meaning in Everyday Conversation
 
Table of Contents
 
Sample from the Introduction
 
Sample from Chapter One
 


Brief Bio

Publicity photo, Robert E. Haskell, Ph.D.
Robert Haskell, Ph.D., has been speaking and conducting research for twenty years on how our mind works with language in everyday settings.  He is a Professor of Psychology, and former Department Chair at the University of New England, and is founder of TransLearn Associates, (www.javanet.com/~rhaskell), focusing on educational and training workshops directed at the critical problem of how we transfer or apply what we learn in one situation to different contexts.

He earned his doctorate from Penn State, and is the author of over 45 scientific research papers and 5 books, including
  1. Reengineering Corporate Training: Intellectual Capital and Transfer of Learning.  Quorum/Greenwood Books, 1998.  Click here for more info or to order.
  2. Cognition and symbolic structures: The psychology of metaphoric transformation.  (Ed.): Norwood, New Jersey: Ablex Publishing, 1987.  Click here for more info or to order.
  3. Cognition and dream research.  (Ed.): New York: Institute of Mind and Behavior. (special double issue of the Journal of Mind and Behavior, 1986.  Click here for more info or to order.

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