| Between the Lines: Unconscious Meaning In Everyday Conversation New York, (orig. Plenum Press), 1999 http://www.perseusbooks.com |
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Details Magazine calls Haskell's method a Chat Decoder, ---Jonah Freedman, Editor (June, 1999, p. 34)
Would you like to know what friends, family, and co-workers are really thinking or feeling about you during a conversation? Filled with actual examples from everyday life, this intriguing book is the result of twenty-years of pioneering research leading to a highly original, practical and natural method for uncovering hidden thoughts and feelings in everyday conversations ---as well as in business groups and therapy sessions. Reveals the most novel mental operations of the human mind yet recognized.
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• After receiving a hurtful comment, why does the person "just happen" to start talking about "pierced ears?" • Why, during a male-dominated discussion does an old movie on late night TV, entitled, A Woman Under the Influence "just happen" to creep into the conversation? • Why did CNN's correspondent, Wolf Blitzer, in reporting the news on President Clinton and Monica Lewinsky's semen stained dress, "just happen" to end by saying the President should have "come clean?" |
• When addressing a store clerk, what does it mean when a customer "just happens" to use phrase "be straight with me," when the store clerk is gay? • Though even the NAACP denies it, when a White aide, in a highly publicized budget meeting with the Black mayor of Washington, D.C., uses the word niggardly (literally meaning miserly) is there in fact racial meaning involved? • During a coffee break from a badly run business meeting why does the small talk "just happen" to be about an incompetent Director of a Mental Health Department. |
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Endorsements | ||
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A ground-breaking, yet highly readable account, of hidden and unconscious meaning in conversations. The many examples provide fascinating and entertaining reading. Not only is it useful in everyday life, but for therapists it is a must-read. Listening to conversations will never be the same again. Haskell 's book is to be compared to Arthur Koestler's The Act of Creation. Only infrequently since Koestler has anyone been able to write a book that presents the complexity of psychological science in a readable way. Between the Lines is a wondrous journey! |
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Two Media Examples | |
# 1. CNN Reporting on the Clinton-Lewinski Affair # 2. CNN Reporting on the Clinton-Lewinski Affair
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Between the Lines: Unconscious Meaning in Everyday Conversation | |
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